I'm sure you've seen this story on your facebook feeds or in the media. I first saw the story on FB. When I saw it, I didn't see the name of the "pastor" involved or the name of the restaurant. But, I found it infuriating, on behalf of people who have served tables everywhere.
As if the nastiness of her comments on weren't enough, and her attempt to force unpaid labors upon a poor waitress, but then she called the restaurant and got the poor waitress fired. Really?
In her statements, she doesn't so much apologize as navel gaze about how this has impacted her.
Frankly, you're too selfish to be a pastor. And, I'm assuming you don't minister for free. . . why would you expect a waitress to serve you for free?