We are in NOLA. We have had many drinks and lots of excellent food. We tried three new bars and tiki seemed to be the theme of the trip.
BUT! Today, a convention has rolled into our hotel. Swingers. OLD SWINGERS. I saw a woman, a good 15 years older than me and likely someone's grandmother, leave our hotel in a see-through nightie and panties. And, my gut reaction was not one of "meh."
I like to think that for the most part, I pretty much don't care about what other folks do in the privacy of their rooms. Frankly, I don't really want to ever have to think about what other folks do in private. I do, however, have all kinds of judgement for those who patronize "sex" businesses; largely because I know that the great majority of such establishments not only exploit their "workers" but also condone and encourage their customers to push boundaries of consent and decency. I know that the women, young men, transpeople who work in such businesses are not safe.
I also have all kinds of judgement for people who force others to deal with their sex acts. This is different from their sexuality . . . but if you're wacking it in public, or humping up on other people/critters/furniture where others can see you . . . or leading your partner around on a leash at the mall then you have violated the rights of others.
Frankly, this shouldn't make me a prude, but I guess it does. You do you and I'll do me but don't make me see you doing IT.