When there is nothing else you can do

I hate feeling helpless.  I like to think I have some level of control.  And, of course that's all bunk.  And, I really hate it when I'm forced to realize just how little control I have over life, and others.

So, why is it that when you are faced with a terrible situation, one that you have absolutely no say or control over, pretty much all you're left with is finding blame?

It's easier if someone has an addiction problem or a mental health problem . . . you can blame that.  But, when people have acted recklessly or selfishly, and others are having to suffer as a result, that's kinda hard to swallow.

I'll go now.  My navel needs to be gazed upon.