I made a faux pas. I had a lack of information, and I ran with it, and I messed up.
The spouse of one of Phenom's friends had a serious accident last week. She had emergency surgery to repair a vital life organ. It was very worrisome.
I am good friends with one of their children. In my concern, I sent her a little facebook message asking about her mom.
She didn't know. Her parents weren't planning on telling the kids what was going on until the danger had passed. I wish you humans would tell me these things before I follow through with the human showing of concern.